How to Control Your Boyfriend Without Him Knowing! Here Are the Tips You Should Read

madden NYC Monikl Men's Combat Boots
These men's Monikl combat boots from madden NYC will become a wardrobe staple.

Clearance Sonoma Goods For Life Comfort Shoes | Kohl's
Enjoy free shipping and easy returns every day at Kohl's. Find great deals on Clearance Sonoma Goods For Life Comfort Shoes at Kohl's today!

You want to control your boyfriend and you’re on the right track, because the first rule of thumb is don’t let him know that that’s what you’re actually trying to do. And here are the rest of the steps you need to follow…

Let him be in charge…

… or at least let him think that he is. Men want to be big, they want to be “the man”. Let him be so. Allow him to soar and glide, while you be the wind beneath his wings – the invisible force that directs him.

Be the lady…

… who doesn’t wait to be rescued. You are a gentle woman, feminine and pleasant on the outside (but tough as a rock inside), yet you try to climb down the tower on your own. What do you think he would do? He would try to be your knight in shining armor and rush to your rescue, of course.

Convince him…

… instead of making demands. Don’t attempt to force him to take his coat off by huffing and puffing because he will hold on tighter to it. Be the sun, shining gently on him, and he will decide on his own to take his jacket off.

If you tie him with a leash…

… then make absolutely certain that he doesn’t choke with it. Let him play and be with the guys. Give him room to grow. Make your leash a really long one so he doesn’t realize that it’s there, and only pull on it when absolutely necessary.

Don’t lock horns with him…

… because you don’t have any. Only males grow them, you see. So don’t try to argue with him — logic for logic — because he won’t stand down. Instead, stroke him gently and he will let down his defense wall.

Appreciate him…

… for the things that he does for you. When you learn to take notice of his little efforts to please you (instead of criticizing him for his mistakes), he would be encouraged to do more.

Treat him as a person…

… and not as a dummy (in every sense of the word). Show him respect. He will stick with you not only because of how he feels about you, but also because of how you make him feel about himself.

Oh, and remember, he has to do things for you because he is convinced that that’s what he wants and not because you “manipulated” him into doing so.

Sale Womens Blue Rewind Shirts & Blouses - Tops, Clothing | Kohl's
Enjoy free shipping and easy returns every day at Kohl's. Find great deals on Sale Womens Blue Rewind Shirts & Blouses at Kohl's today!

Grey Vans | Kohl's
Enjoy free shipping and easy returns every day at Kohl's. Find great deals on Grey Vans at Kohl's today!

FILA™ F-13 Weathertech Men's Sneakers
You'll love wearing these FILA F-13 Weathertech shoes.

Women's Celebrate Together Holiday Long Sleeve Crewneck Top
Boost your holiday wardrobe with this women's top from Celebrate Together.

Women's Lee® Wrinkle-Free Relaxed Fit Straight-Leg Pants
The perfect pick. Refresh your everyday wardrobe with these women's twill pants from Lee.

Women's Gaiam Explorer Woven Joggers
Explore your active lifestyle in these must-have women's pants from Gaiam.

Ellen Tracy Ginaa Women's Pumps
From brunch to an office meeting, these Ellen Tracy Ginaa pumps will have you looking fabulous for any occasion.

Girls' Dresses: Cute Party & Formal Dresses and Rompers for Girls | Kohl's
Enjoy free shipping and easy returns every day at Kohl's. Find great deals on Girls' Dresses at Kohl's today!

Koolaburra by UGG Octavia Faux Fur Bolster Throw Pillow
Bring in a new level of style and comfort to any room with the Koolaburra by UGG Octavia Faux Fur Bolster Throw Pillow.

You may also like...